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Don’t “I Do” Until You Read This

Don’t “I Do” Until You Read This

When I met John O. on the Safeguard Business Systems ski bus to Whistler, I knew it was all over. He was cute, charming, handsome, and so much fun. His personality was something I wasn’t used to. He...

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You Forgot Miracles Exist

You Forgot Miracles Exist

I see a vision. I am holding a piece of black paper and two drops of water are added to the paper. In a moment, the two drops of water move together to become one. At that point, they cannot be...

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Being Jessica Rabbit

Being Jessica Rabbit

Last night, I enjoyed a chicken street taco at my favorite Mexican restaurant. In the bar, there was a family of eight having dinner. All adults, but really quiet. If you've ever been to a Mexican...

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From Human to Heaven in a Skin Bag

From Human to Heaven in a Skin Bag

Living as an enlightened human being... What is this like? I know. I live it daily.The title of my first book came through me after the experience of becoming what I am. The first book - Season One...

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Next Step To Heaven On Earth

Next Step To Heaven On Earth

I don't want food. I genuinely don't. Food is something we grow up seeing as a significant part of life. It is everything. It is cultural. It is conversational. It is art. It pulls families...

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Living In 5D

Living In 5D

I no longer live any storylines on this planet, so there is no opportunity for illness. We create illness when we choose to stay stuck in a situation we want to be out of, but we don't take action....

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Watching as We Once Again Self Destruct

Watching as We Once Again Self Destruct

I had a beautiful relationship with my grandfather. I was the only one who said, "Yes, let go," when he was ready to leave this earth. Everyone else begged him to stay as they knew he was the glue...

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When You Pray, I May Show Up

When You Pray, I May Show Up

I am brought to those who are asking for help. Maybe you are praying, or you have a situation unfolding in your world that is out of your control; it is spinning in a bad direction, and something...

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How Do You Sell Sacred Space?

How Do You Sell Sacred Space?

It hit me today that I am not selling a house. I am selling sacred space. Whoever lands in this home is landing in the land of magic. If they come here to keep the magic alive, it will stay alive as...

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Death is Not a Big Deal

Death is Not a Big Deal

I had no exposure to religion growing up - or ever. Now, I walk directly with God. He is the path I was on; relentlessly seeking something my entire life. Now that I walk with him, and I hear...

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I Miss the Man on Messenger

I Miss the Man on Messenger

And I would do anything to have him back in my life. But it would have to stop right there. It could not go one step further. It could not talk about the future. It could only be the present. Too...

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Trust Fall with God

Trust Fall with God

A small yet significant story from my childhood comes back to me at different times. Each time it comes back around, I learn another lesson. Last night was no exception. I was shown that we can only...

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How I Live In The Magic

How I Live In The Magic

I am not even similar to the woman I was seven years ago. What am I doing differently now? What do I do that was not part of my modus operandi seven years ago? These are truly the simple things I do...

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Busting Out of Your Comfort Zone

Busting Out of Your Comfort Zone

I thought I was the strongest woman on the planet until faced with driving in snow! I was such a princess during my marriage - I never had to drive. When I went alone, it was on a bluebird day. ...

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My Secret Life is About to Explode

My Secret Life is About to Explode

Today from Mount Shasta, CA, I will be sharing how something beautiful, magical, and potentially devastating is right around the corner for me. Preparing myself for this upcoming day, I am not...

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SUMMONED TO MOUNT SHASTA

SUMMONED TO MOUNT SHASTA

I knew I had to hit the road. When I got to I-5, I had to go south. I've only headed north. This was a no-brainer. Then the road that would take me to Reno had fire delays; another obvious thing I'd...

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Maria Elena MEXIA – Part Two

Maria Elena MEXIA – Part Two

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Episode FourteenWe are simply normal people going about our lives... and then, we get the calling...In Part II, we watch the unfolding of Maria Elena's healing abilties. As...

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Maria Elena MEXIA – Part One

Maria Elena MEXIA – Part One

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Episode ThirteenWe are simply normal people going about our lives... and then, we get the calling...In this video, we learn how Maria Elena Mexia went from directing (and...

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FORTY DAYS OF DARKNESS

FORTY DAYS OF DARKNESS

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Episode TwelveJen is embarking on something you wouldn't want to do... In early February, Jen will come out from forty days being in a dark room with absolutely no light....

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THEY SPEAK TO THE OTHER SIDE

THEY SPEAK TO THE OTHER SIDE

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Episode ElevenThese two women both accessed my deceased friend - and both received messages for me.  I was drawn to Jen during a Zoom call as her stories were crazier than...

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The Guidance You Don’t Follow

The Guidance You Don’t Follow

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Episode NineYou may think you follow the guidance you get, In this video I will prove that you don't. You can't!People frequently tell me that they try to live by following...

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Everything is Energy & My Next Move

Everything is Energy & My Next Move

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Episode EightCari explains how everything, even a thought, is energy - and announces her next move!At the Monroe Institute for a week recently, I had another huge opening...

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The Path beyond harmony

The Path beyond harmony

My new life starts right now. This is a new video series I was guided to create. My time in Sedona changed my life completely. Everything has shifted. I have been living ONLY by following guidance,...

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The Shot Dividing Us

The Shot Dividing Us

I had an eerie feeling it was going to come to this. Now that it has, it will be interesting to see where we go from here. We thought we had an administration problem in our country and blamed it...

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Heartless? No… Just no longer broken

Heartless? No… Just no longer broken

We are told by Zen masters to be mindful and present. After achieving this level of existence, I realize most humans could not even begin to live in this state. As you start to ascend levels of...

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I Don’t Miss My Daughter

I Don’t Miss My Daughter

She’s off to college and as she drove away, I moved on to the next segment of my life. She is fine. I have nothing to worry about. I let her go.

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COVID, You’ve Been a Gift

COVID, You’ve Been a Gift

I know most people wouldn't say this, but for me, COVID, you've been a gift. Because it was on its way, I received very deliberate guidance in October of 2019 to buy paint and canvases. I had no...

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I am Not Relationship Material

I am Not Relationship Material

I thought I had my life partner by my side. We were growing together magically. That is... until he realized he couldn't comprehend being in a perfect relationship.I don't expect I will meet another...

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You Can’t Lie to God

You Can’t Lie to God

This last summer has been an adventure I will never forget.  I knew I was to disappear. I didn't know at all what that meant - but now I do. I disappeared from every human I had been in contact with...

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We Truly Choose to Get Sick

We Truly Choose to Get Sick

When I was in the middle of "reality," I was sick - a lot. The highlight was passing out in the lobby of a walk-in clinic, waking up to paramedics asking me my name and who the president was. This...

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You Can Cure SAD & Depression

You Can Cure SAD & Depression

I met her when she cut my Covid hair grow out. She is a very talented hair dresser. What I didn't expect was the story she shared with me. I am an open book so she had a great idea of where I come...

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This Little Video is Quite Popular

This Little Video is Quite Popular

A short video I did over a year ago is apparently gaining traction. I continually get notifications of new comments. I want to stay on top of them as there are so many questions people have about...

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THE TRAIL OF BREADCRUMBS

This is the list of the books I've read, and listened to, on this journey. From the last fiction book I read (although not fiction to me) the Alchemist, to Caroline Myss. These books downloaded...

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Beliefs, Truth & Guidance

Beliefs, Truth & Guidance

THE PATH BEYOND HARMONY - Beliefs, Truth & GuidanceEpisode Five - We have been handed down family beliefs for generations. Why do we simply adopt them because someone decades ago believed it to...

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todays post

Emotions - how you feel is everything! Change how you feel and you will be changing everything in your life! Feel great, life will be great. If you feel others are responsible for your happiness,...

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Happy Birthday to Me!

Happy Birthday to Me!

On October 8, 1959, with the help of a little castor oil, my mother grunted a few times and then poof, there was Cari. That's right, my 60th birthday was two days ago, and you didn't see it anywhere...

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Following my Arrow!

Following my Arrow!

I know I know... I haven't posted anything in quite some time. It's not that I don't want to share what's going on; I've started more unpublished posts than you could imagine! Now that I've created...

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Happy Thanksgiving? Make it happy.

Happy Thanksgiving? Make it happy.

Happy Thanksgiving? Make it happy. It’s officially the holiday season. The weather is cold. It’s a short work week for most. Kids are home from college. The world is wonderful. Many are on their way...

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Allow or Resist? It’s Your Choice.

Allow or Resist? It’s Your Choice.

If given a choice between being stressed and not feeling good - or - feeling good and always knowing that everything is always working out for you, what would you choose? You are either deciding to...

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The Secret to Raising a Beautiful Human

The Secret to Raising a Beautiful Human

I believe I've discovered the secret to raising a beautiful human! I don’t know about your family, but the rule in our family was, “if you tell the truth, you won’t get in trouble.” As it always...

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Suicide Does Not Have to be an Option

Suicide Does Not Have to be an Option

Suicide doesn't have to be an option. Why do you think kids end up going this route? I am stating right out of the gate that I am not an expert, but when I was younger, three times I thought ending...

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Be Who You Are Meant to Be

Be Who You Are Meant to Be

As we approach yet another brand new year, why not let this year be the year you finally and completely allow yourself to be who you are meant to be? What do you have to lose? Let's honor ourselves...

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December 18th, It Became Real.

As I was driving home from working in Olympia last week, I watched as a freight train was above me on the overpass as we were both moving fast in our respective directions. This train trestle,...

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Living Groundhog Day

Living Groundhog Day

What did a day in the life look like for me? Honestly, I've been living groundhog day for so long, it's all I knew. I would wake up as early as I could so I could visit with Hannah before she took...

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I Have a Confession to Make

I Have a Confession to Make

Yep, I have a confession to make. Yesterday I was given the go-ahead by my daughter to post something on social media. She has been accepted and has signed on the dotted line that she will go to...

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Be Alone and Never be Lonely

Be Alone and Never be Lonely

When I post something on my blog or comment on a social media post about the beauty I find in the time I spend being entirely alone, it amazes me how people respond. The responses are along the...

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Cari 2.0

Cari 2.0

I went to the Oregon coast for clarity. If someone I knew ten years ago connected with me today, they would see an entirely new version of me. I'm the new Cari 2.0! I have experienced constant...

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Move Heaven and Earth – for What?

Move Heaven and Earth – for What?

Often, we want to move heaven and earth to help someone... for what? When you find yourself entangled in the lives of other people, it can be exhausting! I found myself drawn into two different life...

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Look What You Made Me Do

Look What You Made Me Do

Look what you made me do, Taylor Swift! You made me write a blog post about your new song. How did you pull that off? Frankly, I don't really know who or what the song is about; I only hope she...

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The Beauty of Abuse

The Beauty of Abuse

The beauty of abuse, how ridiculous that must sound! The thing is, without the horrible childhood I had, I would not be where I am today without it. This is my absolute truth! When you come from a...

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Soul Transcenders

Soul Transcenders

Rather than wait for calls from organizations I've contacted to come and speak to their people, I'm doing it myself. Why didn't I think of this before? Well, mostly because the plan I have laid out...

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Unconventional Graduation Wisdom

Unconventional Graduation Wisdom

As you graduate from high school and prepare to take on the world and all the unknown adventures ahead, here are a few nuggets of wisdom; unconventional graduation wisdom. Keep this with you as you...

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How My Purpose Found Me

How My Purpose Found Me

I know, you haven't seen a blog post from me since March 8th. Trust me, I've started about 15 articles, but by the time the next day came, my mind moved on to bigger and better things. You see, I...

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Happy International Women’s Day!

Happy International Women’s Day!

Who would have thought that when my employer told me I was taking this day off, I would have had ill feelings about it? Why are they giving me the day off? I already picked my holidays for the year....

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Words that Change Lives

Words that Change Lives

How many adults do you know who are in their 30's, 40's or even 50's and to this day, they are still trying to make their parents proud? If only they had just heard those words uttered a few times,...

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I was Just a Fat Girl!

I was Just a Fat Girl!

I realize how far I have come every time I look back and see how backward my life was! Here is an example of my old story, the way I saw it, I was just a fat girl. All of my life I was obsessed with...

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The Gift of Silence

The Gift of Silence

I can still see myself as I was looking into the downstairs mirror. I was wearing a red V-neck sweater and blue jeans. My hair was straight, parted in the middle. As I walked into the bathroom and...

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I’ve Truly Gone from Abused to Zen

I’ve Truly Gone from Abused to Zen

I've truly gone from abused to zen. I haven't published a blog post since December 12th, 2016. The last one I wrote was about my former step-son who is preparing for his federal prison sentencing...

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Making of a Monster

Making of a Monster

I was not surprised one little bit when I saw the article that my former stepson was arrested for kidnapping. Not shocked, not surprised, actually I kind of expected it. I was in the same house with...

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Same Shit, Different Day

Same Shit, Different Day

Another police officer shot and killed in the line of duty is hard for most of us to take. Today, I heard the recap of the story in Tacoma which started with a domestic violence disturbance...

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Start Your Day With Soul-Sex

Start Your Day With Soul-Sex

Add Hours to your Day with a Mind-Gasm!   Do you ever find yourself feeling angst because there is so much you need to be doing, but you aren't doing it all? There just doesn't seem to be...

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