We think we are to mate for life. We are not. We have agreements for people to enter into our lives to help us become what we need to become. When we have fulfilled our agreement, we feel emptiness… but we stay in the relationship… why? It is over. 

A young couple is going through a difficult break up. I am trying to help them understand the beauty of their coming together. They gave each other a gift. Their contract is over. They both know it… but our beliefs are that we need to do anything to make love work. No. Sometimes we are done. We have exchanged gifts. It’s time to move on.